One Heartbeat at a Time

Dear Beloved of Trinity,

This week, I had the sacred honor of officiating the funeral of a dear friend’s father, who lived to the remarkable age of 102. In the United States, only about 0.03% of people reach the century mark. His life was a full and generous one—rich with love, family, a successful medical career, community service, and global travels.

In stark contrast, a colleague presided over the funeral of a 19-year-old young man who tragically fell asleep at the wheel while driving home. He was at the top of his class, a varsity athlete, beloved by his classmates—an exemplary young man with a bright future.

Both lives, though vastly different in length, speak to the fragile and mysterious nature of our existence. There is often no clear rhyme or reason to how or why things happen. We like to believe we have control—and perhaps in some ways we do—but ultimately, life unfolds on its own terms, shaped by countless unseen variables.

At the end of the day, every life is lived in the same way: one heartbeat, one breath at a time. Whether we are granted 19 years or 102, each of us moves through life moment by moment. A heartbeat is a heartbeat. A breath is a breath. These are the sacred rhythms that unite us all—regardless of status, age, or circumstance.

So I invite you: pause for a moment. Become aware of your own heartbeat. Feel the breath moving in and out of your lungs. And give thanks to God for the simple, extraordinary gift of being alive.

“With each beat of the heart, God whispers: You are still here. You are still loved. Make this moment count.” — Unknown

Peace and Blessings,

Paul+

It’s the Real Thing!

Dear Beloved of Trinity,

Recently, I was invited to speak at a conference. My presentation was titled In Search of Me: The Quest for an Authentic Life.  As I neared the end of my talk, I referenced an old Coca-Cola jingle from the 1970s. It’s the real thing. The way it should be. What the world wants to see. It’s the real thing.  That slogan still lingers—because it speaks to a deep human longing. We long for something real.

In our time, with the rise of artificial intelligence and its seemingly limitless ability to generate nearly anything—images, voices, even entire realities—the line between what is real and what is manufactured is getting harder and harder to see.

We live in a world of curated lives, projected images, and polished personas. Promises are made, truths are proclaimed, and yet so often, we’re left disillusioned, discovering that what we thought was real was just an illusion. A bait-and-switch. Smoke and mirrors.

Even in our own lives, we often fall into the same trap—constructing versions of ourselves that are more successful, more secure, more admired than who we really are. We chase dreams, accumulate things, wear labels… and yet deep down, so much of it feels hollow.

John Mabry, in his book Growing into God: A Beginner’s Guide to Christian Mysticism, writes:

“When the seed of God is planted in you, when you are given a glimpse of the Real, when you have seen what is essential and what is dross, how will your life change?”

That’s the question: What happens when we encounter something real?

We need truth, not spin.

We need beauty, not glamour.

We need hope, not empty promises.

We need love, not fleeting infatuation.

And we are offered all of that—not in a product, not in a program, but in the Gospel of Jesus Christ - The Real One.

When you’ve encountered Him—when you’ve truly experienced what is real—everything else begins to pale in comparison. You start to see the emptiness of the imposters.

Because … the real thing,

Is … the way it should be.

Is … what the world wants to see.

Christ is the real thing!

Peace and Blessings,

Paul+

Memorial Service: Jack Wallace

A SERVICE OF CELEBRATION AND THANKSGIVING FOR THE LIFE OF

JACK WALLACE

(February 12, 1933 - May 1, 2025)

Please join us

JUNE 17, 2025

11:00 A.M.

O God of grace and glory, we remember before you this day our brother Jack. We thank you for giving him to us, his family and friends, to know and to love as a companion on our earthly pilgrimage. In your boundless compassion, console us who mourn. Give us faith to see in death the gate of eternal life, so that in quiet confidence we may continue our course on earth, until, by your call, we are reunited with those who have gone before; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Diocese of New Jersey South Asian Ministry: Join us June 14th!

Diocese of New Jersey South Asian Ministry presents: The Ecumenical Christian Fellowship of New Jersey Choir

All Singers are from various Indian Churches and directed by Fr. Jacob David (Trinity Episcopal in Rocky Hill).

An evening of spiritual songs from India!

June 14th at 4:00pm

Trinity Church 33 Mercer St., Princeton, New Jersey

For more information:

Mobile (752) 425-8002 or Email: revjdavideyahoo.com

The Triune God

Dear Good People of Trinity Church,

This Sunday is uniquely ours—Trinity Sunday. It is the day we celebrate the magnificent mystery and the sacred simplicity of one of the greatest truths of our Faith: God as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—Creator, Redeemer, and Sustainer.

Since the fourth century, the Church has wrestled with the doctrine of the Trinity. It has been explored and examined, discussed and debated through the centuries. Theologians have written volumes, councils have convened, and believers have pondered. And yet, despite all our efforts to explain it, I wonder if we sometimes try too hard to understand something that is not meant to be fully understood but rather experienced.

We can dissect the Trinity with words and doctrines, but true understanding dawns only when we encounter the living God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—in the depth of our lives. Once we experience the triune God, no theological argument can make that experience more real, and no debate can take it away.

The Trinity, I believe, is not merely something to be believed about—it is a divine reality we know, deep in our hearts, when we have encountered Love itself.

Fr. Richard Rohr once wrote:

“Many of us say we believe in the Trinity—but we really don’t, because we don’t know what to do with it. We can’t even imagine it; all of our metaphors are simply words trying to grab at the reality, at the experience of God that ultimately can’t be verbalized. It can only be experienced.”

Julian of Norwich, the 14th-century mystic, knew this well. In a time of illness and deep contemplation, she received a series of divine visions—what she called “showings.” In one of these, she encountered the Trinity so fully that her heart overflowed with joy. In the words of translator Mirabai Starr, Julian writes:

“In the midst of this showing the blessed Trinity also revealed itself to me and filled my heart to overflowing with joy. I realized that this is what it will be like in the world to come, for all beings, and for all time. For the Trinity is God, and God is the Trinity. The Trinity is our creator and our sustainer, our Beloved forever and ever, our endless joy and bliss.”

This Sunday, may we move beyond analysis and into awe. May we allow ourselves not just to contemplate the Trinity, but to encounter the Trinity—and in doing so, be transformed.

In the name of the Triune God,

Paul+

I Can See Clearly Now

Dear Beloved of Trinity Church,

In 1972 Johnny Nash recorded the hit song “I can see clearly now, the rain is gone.” It’s light and joyful melody, wonderfully invites your body to sway and puts a smile on your face. I was reminded of this song while reading Passions of the Soul by Rowan Williams.  He writes that “our habitual mental and spiritual condition is one in which we quite simply don’t see clearly.” He continues on to say, “We don’t know things as we ought to know them; we don’t see them as we ought to see them.” Our brokenness - our sin - distorts our vision and understanding.  We struggle to see the truth of things as they really are, whether good or bad, beautiful or painful.

To help us see more clearly, Williams draws on the wisdom of Evagrius of Pontus, a 4th-century monastic theologian. Evagrius described three ways of seeing: the angelic way, the human way, and the diabolic way.

·       The angelic way is to see reality as it truly is “as things emerge from the hand of God.”

·       The diabolic way sees the world through the lens of self-interest and consumerism, where everything is reduced to its usefulness to us: “What can you do for me?”

·       The human way wavers between the two, struggling to see clearly but often sliding back into ego-driven perception, “stuffing the world into the bag of the self.”

Knowing this, we strive to see the world the angelic way. This does not mean wearing rose-colored glasses or pretending things are better than they are. Rather, it means seeing the world truthfully—through the redemptive lens of God’s love and grace. It means recognizing both the pain and brokenness of life and the beauty and possibility that can and will be in and through the love of God.

And one day, one glorious day, it really will be a bright, bright, bright, bright sunshiny day—for all of creation.

Peace and Blessings,

Paul+

All Parish Pizza and Beverages: June 8th

We are thrilled to invite you our All Parish Pizza and Beverages on the Lawn as we launch God of Grace and Glory—a bold and prayerful comprehensive campaign for the future of our beloved church.

 YOU are invited!

Please RSVP and join us: RSVP here:

  • All Parish Pizza and Beverages on the Lawn
    Sunday, June 8 from 5-7 pm at Trinity Church

    Join fellow parishioners for an evening of fellowship, refreshments, and conversation as we share the vision and priorities of the campaign. This general campaign gathering is open to all members of the parish and will offer a welcoming space to learn more, ask questions, and get involved.

Music Program Wine and Cheese June 11th

We are thrilled to invite you to our event : “Music Program: Wine and Cheese” as we launch God of Grace and Glory—a bold and prayerful comprehensive campaign for the future of our beloved church.

 YOU are invited!

Please RSVP and join us: RSVP here:

  • Music Program Wine and Cheese
    Wednesday, June 11 from 5-7 pm at The Nassau Club

    This special event is for those who sing in the choir or who are passionate about supporting Trinity’s beloved music program. Hosted with the support of Music Director Meg Harper, the evening will celebrate the role of music in our worship and community life – and explore how the campaign will help sustain it well into the future.

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